<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post6819931052829282661..comments</id><updated>2007-12-02T13:26:16.775-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Academomia: only a memory</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.academomia.com/feeds/6819931052829282661/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html'/><author><name>Becca</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05156777853779141522</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-5970951169802196127</id><published>2007-12-02T13:26:16.775-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-02T13:26:16.775-08:00</updated><title type='text'>When I started reading your latest post, I was so ...</title><content type='html'>When I started reading your latest post, I was so excited for you. But as I read on my heart sank. I can't imagine what you're going through...and I'm so very sorry. Sure wish I could give you a hug right now and I'd love to smack that nurse who was so rude.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Take care, hon.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/5970951169802196127'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/5970951169802196127'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196630776775#c5970951169802196127' title=''/><author><name>kirsten</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-223138642448233099</id><published>2007-12-02T08:49:26.445-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-02T08:49:26.445-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, Becca. I'm so sorry.There simply are no words....</title><content type='html'>Oh, Becca. I'm so sorry.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;There simply are no words.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/223138642448233099'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/223138642448233099'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196614166445#c223138642448233099' title=''/><author><name>Liz</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08172318473717634353</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-498114575679745092</id><published>2007-12-01T14:45:01.706-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-01T14:45:01.706-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I am so sorry to hear this.  Our thoughts are with...</title><content type='html'>I am so sorry to hear this.  Our thoughts are with you!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/498114575679745092'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/498114575679745092'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196549101706#c498114575679745092' title=''/><author><name>Sarah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07270389106604867450</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-8512546042339479652</id><published>2007-12-01T12:32:08.318-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-01T12:32:08.318-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, I was really rooting for you.  I'm so sorry.  ...</title><content type='html'>Oh, I was really rooting for you.  I'm so sorry.  Adding to the pile of hugs.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/8512546042339479652'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/8512546042339479652'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196541128318#c8512546042339479652' title=''/><author><name>Art Nerd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13204748149668501489</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-7128296568783420118</id><published>2007-12-01T07:47:18.724-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-01T07:47:18.724-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I am so sorry, Becca. I've read many people's expe...</title><content type='html'>I am so sorry, Becca. I've read many people's experiences with this lately and what strikes me the most is how callously all of the women have been treated. It is just awful to be treated as such, especially when grieving a very real loss. I am so so sorry.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/7128296568783420118'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/7128296568783420118'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196524038724#c7128296568783420118' title=''/><author><name>Kyla</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03311014761113076785</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-2538891554758038414</id><published>2007-11-30T21:11:51.822-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-30T21:11:51.822-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm sorry, Becca.  *hugs from afar*</title><content type='html'>I'm sorry, Becca.  *hugs from afar*</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/2538891554758038414'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/2538891554758038414'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196485911822#c2538891554758038414' title=''/><author><name>Marianne</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18188087172327171162</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='14325706258204228047'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-7427617986928857252</id><published>2007-11-30T20:33:48.047-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-30T20:33:48.047-08:00</updated><title type='text'>We have a few (not)spawn playing together somewher...</title><content type='html'>We have a few (not)spawn playing together somewhere.  I am so sorry.  Charlie is so very dear that it is no surprise that you consider another. You are correct to select a practice that fits the appropriate emotional template - it is the least that they can do.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Best wishes/ best of luck to you.  I'd raise a cup of java or a glass of tequila with you, your choice, were we closer.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/7427617986928857252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/7427617986928857252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196483628047#c7427617986928857252' title=''/><author><name>Homestead Mom</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05609656644515059452</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-4409776464659843800</id><published>2007-11-30T19:11:11.795-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-30T19:11:11.795-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm sending you another hug and cookie vibes over ...</title><content type='html'>I'm sending you another hug and cookie vibes over the internet --abby</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/4409776464659843800'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/6819931052829282661/comments/default/4409776464659843800'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html?showComment=1196478671795#c4409776464659843800' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.academomia.com/2007/11/only-memory.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4581292130034617098.post-6819931052829282661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4581292130034617098/posts/default/6819931052829282661' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>